Sunday, August 21, 2011

Sudan celebrates its first Ramadan after the secession

The holy month of Ramadan is celebrated in a festive atmosphere across the states of Sudan; it is both an Islamic and a cultural event. Throughout the month of Ramadan, the Sudanese capital of Khartoum becomes a beacon of spirituality that is merged with rich culture and traditions.

Sudan celebrates its first post-split Ramadan

For the first time in history, Sudan celebrates Ramadan this year as half a country. Following South Sudan’s official secession on July 9th, 2011, North and South Sudan have since become two independent countries, with South Sudan becoming the world’s newest and 193rd nation.

Despite the issues subsequent to this split—including loss of diversity and resources—the peoples of these two countries are hopeful for the dawn of a new era that is filled with both peace and a better living.

In an attempt to overcome the agony of this historical decree, the people of Sudan are riding on the coat-tails of Ramadan, rejoicing the arrival of this month, and engaging in their customary Ramadan rituals and traditions.

For the minority of South Sudanese Muslims still living in Sudan, however, the case is a different one. This year, they spend their Ramadan nights supplicating to Allah that their lives do not get disrupted any further. Unidentified by both the North and the South, these minorities are caught in the middle of a dilemma, with one of the possible scenarios being their ultimate statelessness. Conversely, they attempt to lead a life as normal as possible, and they mark the month of Ramadan with abstinence, prayer and piety.

Fasting during the day: A 30-day challenge

Located adjacent to the Sahara Desert, Sudan is known for its year-round warm and dry climate. The biggest challenge faced during a fasting day is bearing the sun’s incredible heat and battling with thirst.

With many citizens making a living on the road, such as amjaad (rental cab) drivers, sometimes the heat takes a toll on them. “I work fewer hours during the day in Ramadan, there is less work anyway,” remarked amjaad driver Khalifa while speaking to “Islam Online”. “I have no air conditioning in my car, and the traffic gets hectic during the day. That’s why I prefer to work at night, right after taraweeh prayer,” he added.

Charity Projects: Catering to the less privileged

Sudan boasts many charitable organizations that are active during this month. Usually run by volunteers, they target those who are unable to afford basic food products, particularly in light of the considerable increase in food prices that was mandated by the Sudanese government a few months ago.

“To Sudan with Love”, is one such organization. Started by a small group of friends in 2008, it has grown over the past three years and bridged good-willed people from around the world who share one aim—to give back to Sudan.

“If you look beyond the once biggest country in Africa’s fancy buildings and glistening lights, the less privileged are not hiding in dried up ditches or abandoned homes, they’re right in front of you and one cannot disregard what’s in sight,” said Enas Suleiman to “Islam Online”, an administrator and co-founder of “To Sudan with Love”.

“This year we are targeting needy families in various rural areas. These families will receive hampers consisting of food essentials like flour, sugar and dates. Should we surpass our target during this blessed month inshallah (God willing), our team and kind volunteers are ready to cover more ground for additional hamper distributions and deliver packaged iftars (breaking fast meals) to mosques, hospitals and other rural areas. We are grateful to Allah and are humbly hoping to be the centre that connects the right hand of the more privileged to the left hand of those who aren’t, especially during the month of giving,” she added.

On the other hand, other volunteer groups aim to focus on providing iftars for patients and family members who travel from rural areas to Khartoum in pursuit of medical treatment for their loved ones. Hospitals are usually packed with patients, family members and visitors who, amid the chaos and frustration of their situation, often forget to break their fast come Maghrib (sunset) time. In most cases, they can’t afford to leave the hospital and they have nowhere to go. Volunteers make it their task that each and every one of these people breaks their fast and gets a decent meal.

43-year-old Bakhita Ahmed has come all the way from Al-Damazin, the capital city of Blue Nile State with her 5-year-old son. In Khartoum, her son was diagnosed with a heart disease. Since then, she has been sleeping in the hospital because she doesn’t want to leave him by himself.

“Being here in Ramadan is a struggle. I want to be with my children and husband making them the food they like and going to the mosque to pray taraweeh,” said Bakhita.

Instead, she is sprawling to feel the arrival of the holy month of Ramadan at the rundown children’s hospital in downtown Khartoum. Nonetheless, Bakhita is grateful for these volunteers who change the mood at the hospital by their selfless kindness.

In addition to such numerous volunteer organizations, the Sudanese streets witness the unlimited kindness of strangers who generously give out food and drinks to passers-by during azaan (prayer call) time. Those returning home from their jobs close to Maghrib time are often met by strangers who offer them drinks and dates to break their fast. In return, the volunteers hope for nothing more than the ajr (Godly reward) that results from quenching the thirst of someone who’s fasting.

Experiencing Ramadan: Between religion and culture

Cultural practices mark the practices of this month in many ways. Mass iftars are a common tradition held in copious regions around Sudanese states and cities, such as houses, mosques, workplaces and even streets.

A standard iftar meal features Sudanese soul food and Sudanese cuisine, ranging from aseeda, mulaah, while succulent home-made beverages exist in assorted types, such as the conventional karkadai, abrai, and helo murr.

Furthermore, taraweeh prayer is embedded in tradition to the extent that many men, women and even children make sure to attend it on a daily basis. The elders skirmish with their medical problems, joint pains and health issues and sit through eight to ten raka’as of taraweeh prayer and beautiful Quran recital.

This article was first published on IslamOnline.net

Monday, August 15, 2011

Random Thought

I hope that one day you will forgive me for not being everything that you wanted me to be..

Happy belated birthday..

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Stories from Our Reality: A Sudanese Widow's Blues

Last year, I had written a series of short stories, inspired from reality, which were published by a local newspaper. I came across them recently, and thought of sharing them on my blog. Here is one of them.

Stories from Our Reality
A Sudanese Widow's Blues


On her wedding day, Randa looked ravishing- she was a bride so beautiful people would stare and comment. Hussein could not keep his eyes off her, and she kept looking away in bashfulness. She whispered in his ear, “you’re staring, stop doing that it’s making me nervous,” and he just smiled at her, slyly. He knew right from beginning, he knew when he first saw her that she was the one for him.

Just weeks into their marriage, Randa and Hussein were living as one blissful newly wed couple. They spent every moment together, and could not stand even the thought of being apart. They enjoyed facing life together, and they were a mere example of an idyllic couple. Life was beautiful, and this marital union was heavenly.

As the months passed by, Randa and Hussein’s relationship grew stronger. They were deeply in love and intensely adored one another. There was no force in the universe that was going to break them apart; their bond was stronger than any force...
Or so they thought.

Eight months later, Hussein passed away after suffering from terminal cancer. He departed this life at the peak of his youth and left his beautiful young bride without a husband.

Hussein had indicators of cancer two years prior to his diagnosis, but he never told a soul. Only until his last days on earth and long after the diagnosis did he tell his wife and loved ones about his illness. The news hit everyone hard, and Randa was devastated.

The news of his death left Randa in a hysterical state. When she first learned them, she felt as though she was struck by a fierce lightning bolt; except her body was numb. She supplicated to Allah to make her suffer actual physical pain as opposed to this horrid feeling at the pit of her stomach. She did not want to believe her life partner was gone, she chose denial as a way to deal with his death.

The tears kept flowing like a river of sadness and grief. She sat there plunged in the profoundest grief that can come to the human soul, reforming in her mind the image of a man who had been friend, companion and lover during eight months of youth too dynamic and promising to be distorted by uneven fortune.

Day after day, week after week and month after month Randa was trying to cope with the death of her husband. She was trying to readjust her life and set it to a new mode, the mode of life as a widow; a mode she never thought existed until Hussein was gone.

Randa was a strong woman. She refused to embrace defeat in her life, and she rebuffed to accept the life of woe and sorrow. She got herself together and decided to go back to school. She needed to do something to keep herself occupied. Finally obtaining her college degree, she thought, she could find a job and become a working woman.

Little did Randa know that she was going to face even more hardships in her life after the passing of her husband. In actuality, she was a young, beautiful widow with a whole life ahead of her. Her family wanted to marry her to someone new, after all society’s acceptance of widows and female divorcees has always been slender.

Randa was finally okay to deal with life without Hussein, but she was certainly not okay with marrying someone else. She was still grieving the loss of her partner, a part of her soul was missing… how they expected her to marry someone else was beyond her comprehension. Despite her constant refusal of suitors, her family kept trying to set her up with a new man every so often. They were persistent, and they thought that if they kept pushing her that she would finally cave. But she never did, she stood her grounds and said no to each and every single one of them.

Right now Randa is in her final year at university, she will be graduating in a few months. Her soul is filled with hope of a new life and a new beginning. She is aspiring to become a successful career woman.